I understand how shitty it must be for you females when a man doesn't do it right. To have a man doing it half assed, where it feels kinda good but never does much beyond that would defiantly be hell. But Damn... It's like this, my first girlfriend told me flat out "I'll let you go down on me 2 times, if you ain't got what it takes well too bad!" *I never did go downtown on her :P* But still, that was some AMAZING pressure to put me under and still expect me handle my business. If your man is making a real attempt to please you ease up, tell him when he does something you like, or don't like. If you don't give him a chance he'll never be able to get good at it, and surly all men have it in them to excel when it comes to licking sweet pussy. Some just don't know they do, so encourage your man, tell him what he does that feels good and what doesn't. It might take some time, longer then you may want to wait, but give him time and don't put a lot of pressure HIM!
